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Allison Lang Buechner Absolutely devastated only trying to help the ones I love and get stabbed in the back for it, I am soo done caring about people, I mean DONE... I am way too low right now to deal with this I need HAPPY! So will somebody please send me my dream job soon???

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Jillian Hammett

Ur an amazing person! Don't let the stupid shit get u down girl...u will come out on top....promise! ;)

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Allison Lang Buechner

Thanks Jill you have no idea how much I needed to hear to that right now, because I feel as though I am being unfairly persecuted for trying to help a loved one that really needs it right now more than ever. I just have too big a heart sometimes and it gets me in trouble because I care too much and obviously caring about some people pisses them off and they don't appreciate it all. Its funny ti get yelled at about caring about loving someone and wanting to be there for them at their lowest. Your words really helped.

I dont even know why I care in the first place if this is how she treats me for trying to be there for her because she is family - I guess because I care about my family no matter what no matter how bad the situation, because family is supposed to help each other not BLAME one another - take responsibility for the situation you are in and stop trying to put the blame off on other people look inside yourself.

If you can't handle people commenting on your life and trying to help you then DONT announce it on Facebook continuously and not expect people to want to help you not make such a huge mistake keep it amongst your family as I would never have even known had you not bragged about it on here. ... See More

I'm done as I cannot handle the drama when my own life has enough drama as it is... until I find a job & get myself together that is :-) Never felt this hurt by a family member before, if you make adult choices act like an adult and leave me out this drama - I dont deserve this as I was only caring about you and that has somehow trned me into this bad person in your families eyes. So please just leave me alone as I really dont want to be involved in anything you do from now on - you made an adult decision so you will have to live with it as I know you have already discussed with alot of people.

People comment because they want the best for you not because they hate you and dont care if they didnt care they would sit back and say NOTHING because they could care less whether you are messing your life up - thus why I continuously said how much I care about you. Your reaction to our messages just shows how truly not ready you are to be an adult because if you were mature enough you would understand that we all loved you and would not have acted this immature about it - you would have felt loved that that many people care about your well being.

Good luck in your future endeavors, I just cannot be a part of your life anymore because I got too hurt for simply caring and I wont let that happen again as I am wayyy too sensitive to have people go after me for caring!

I have wayyy too big a heart to waste it on someone who doesnt want to be cared about. See I have ths policy that I stand by my family no matter what - you just changed that policy. Just remember the more people you exclude from your life the less people you will have to support you when you really need them I really hope you realize that before its too late.

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Shannon Hansen Bailey

I don't know what's going on, but I think you need a hug!
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Allison Lang Buechner broken, no longer a complete me & I cant even deal with it now because its 3am why cant somethings just be easy in life... and on top of that really tired, still sick, with more work to do for my unemployment class tomorrow. glad for past resumes still on monster and careerbuilder I had saved or that woulda been a pain... in the ass as I have to meet with a direct person since I had to miss the class, nervewracking much

In response to a dropout

 

 

In response to a family member who just dropped out of high school, proudly it seems... These ended up casuing a huge family ordeal but I firmly believe children need guidance to stay in school not leave it NO matter what!

 

Allison Lang Buechner

Its just soo hard when youryears older than your age and you know soo much more and you remember how you used to think you knew soo much stuff that you knew as much as everyone and yet I see now how much I didn't then.

I just hate to sit back not have said something when I see something that could hurt you soo, soo much in the future... and just allowed you to go through with a decision that only ten years from now you will fully realize the consequences of.

I am soo not against you - I will love you no matter your faults as you know we sure as hell have our own issues and noone is perfect nor ever will be. We have all fucked up and made stupid decisions that alot of people have disapproved of - look my sister still wont talk to me because I took Scott back. ... See More

What you don't know is my entire family had to leave our town I grew up in because of me and things that happened to me.. my mom & dad had to get new jobs, my sister had to change schools like soo fast - I was made fun of for being from a small town and ridiculed for soo many years because of it... it was hell and everyone in my family blamed me for it.. So many times I didnt want to live much less go to class so ya I know what its like to go through hell at your age - at that time they didnt let you cye your hair or have piercings either. I wasnt perfect but I NEVER would have left school nor would I have been allowed to as my ass would have been kicked out soo fast if I had like great you decided that then you can get a job and pay your own bills - there was no other decision in my family thank god my parents wanted soo much more for me and fought for me to finish school.

I want you to know that I went through my own personal hell at your age... You arent the only one who has gone through hell at your age. At 17 I thought I was pregnant and got to sit with my dad waiting for an ultrasound... imagine how much fun that was sitting with my dad who was fuming mad and yet kindly supportive as he knew how scared I was. But even if I had been prtegnant thank god my parents were there for me and would have helped me raise it so I could stay in school. So if your dad is there for you I am happy - thats what counts you need that more than anything you need in your life right now. I just hate to see you ruin your life by making a decision I swear you will never fully be aware of the consequences of for at least ten years down the line. I hate to see you be limited to menial jobs when you have a good head on your shoulders and deserve better in life.

I also hate to see you wasting your time in school if your not into it. I really wish you had a better counseling department at your school so you never even got this far. Just know that even with GED you will always make less the rest of your life. I am soo not scolding you just worried for you. Scotts brother and cousin both dropped out and got GEDs and my husband never eeven went to college because he is in an industry where you get paid more on years experience than a degree. You do have possibilities. I will tell you my husband should have dropped out because his ADHD was soo bad he recalls hardly anything from school - its gets annoying at times because he doesnt know some simple things yet is soo proficient a videographer/editor and he is very happy doing this job.
So the truth is you have to do what makes you happy but you have to know that every decision you make has consequences - I know that more than most as I fuck up everything in my life and always have and alot of people will tell you that which only makes you feel even more like shit - nothing has ever been easy for me its always bee the hard way and I guess thats just my cross to bear.

The reason I almost dropped out of college my 2nd year was I had been attacked and I was flunking out of all my classes and I had never even made a C even on a homework assignment my whole life - but my life was soo screwed up. I couldn't face flunking out of a semester because in college its almost impossible to ever overcome those grades. After going home & realizing all my bills, etc I went back & studied my ass off missed every party and barely ended up with all C's - thank god for that.

Also, I want you to know that even if you get your GED don't just think you have to go to college right away. I think soo many people should have waited until they really figured out who they are and what they want to do before wasting a shitload of $ on school... Take this time to find jobs you enjoy dont just settle... Outback was ALWAYS good to my sister from 16 yrs up through college.

Find somewhere fun that you really enjoy and dont dread going to each day. Thats when you will find fullfulment in your life if not in school.. Right now its just important that you find happiness and I am very glad your dad is there to support you because no matter how many awful times I have had my parents have always supported me even when I thought they would kill me.

Don't ever think Im judging you or hate you or am turning my back on you - its the opposite - Ive been through soo much hell I would hate to see anyone else go through what I have had to go through if they dont have to. But the thing is I can't protect you - only you can live your life and figure out what makes you happy. I will be here for you no matter how much you screw up or how happy you are. You deserve love from your family As much as I would love to show you the consequences of this decision I cant because its your life no matter howvery young you are. Just keep your dad involved in our life whether you want to or not as he will be a great resource for you. Im sorry you are even having to make this decision, but I will always love you and always be here for you even if its just to scream about something I dont even know a thing about. Just please dont think I am criticising you - Im just going through alot right now trying to fight for my own marriage for the 2nd time in a row so I am a lil raw right now!

See life isn't always cheery even if you try to as hard as you can because life happens and you cant change it!

Hopefully Scott & I will see you in August when we come for our best friends wedding. I really hope by then you are doing great and that we can all hang out. We are planning on coming in a lil longer so we can get more time with you all & you can show him Garden of the Gods as he has never been theirl Please keep me updated even if you dont want to as I do worry about you and hope for the best!

love you LOTS, ally

March 15 at 2:47am ·

Allison Lang Buechner

Ya know  there are alot of things you can do at my age of 32 that you can't/should never do at the tender/young age of 17 and dropping f-bombs is one of them – your mind just isn’t mature enough to even begin to do things a 32 yr old does – experience brings that about. Ya see at my age I just look stupid and uneducated when I drop the f bomb though I am highly guilty of this and am always reminded by everyone around me how trashy I truly sound - but I deal with it because those are the repercussions of me saying it out loud. I say it so I should expect others to make comments about how uneducated it makes me look.

When someone your age says it, it is like a desperate cry out to everyone to make people think they are older than they really are, which comes out looking sad like they are begging for attention soo bad. You have to understand that what you say will be judged by those around you whether you like it or not – that’s life. To this day my dad will stop talking to me if I ever say that word in his house, even if I say crap I get in trouble and I'm 32. He said I should respect myself more than to have to resort to that trashy language. He does it because he loves me and he hates to see me use such unclassy language that reflects badly on my upbringing and makes me look soo trashy. It also reflects on those around me that I love – and I don’t want to hurt people I love.

So if you can't handle the criticism that comes with the words you use then you are obviously not mature enough to use them in the first place. You can knock that chip you have on your shoulder and move on if you are truly mature to drop f bombs all the time - it shouldnt even phase you what others think then. Cause trust me it pisses me off when people tell me to stop droppin them but its my life, I'm 32 I have gone through a hell you cant even begin to imagine and pain that will NEVER go away -a back surgery all the way down my belly and down my back at the same time with 4 rods 5 screws a plate and cadaver bone that lasted over 8 hrs - FUCK is the only word that will ever describe those things and until youve been at the bottom of your life will you ever understand that – you are way too young and inexperienced to even begin to fathom how horrible life can be.... See More

You make decisions and then get pissed that the people that love them are soo worried about them. That’s what happens when you make a decision like dropping out – you get that attention and LOTS of it because people love you that much. They love you enough to know how horribly this decision will affect the rest of your life, how many things you will miss out on because you dropped out and only got your GED, how you wont even begin to realize how negatively this decision will be on your life until like 10 years from now.

I know you think your all grown up and can make your own decisions – but at 17 you are just a baby you haven’t even begun to experience life and all the decisions that comes with it. Its soo hard out there and your family members only want you to be able to go out in the world with the best backing you could have to be able to handle those situations. Hell I wasn’t ready even after I graduated college – I failed miserably, blew money left and right, didn’t pay my bills and had to declare bankruptcy and that was when I thought I knew how to handle everything on my own… but I didn’t because even at 24 I wasn’t ready to be on my own. Its all those things you go through during all those years that prepares you to be able to make informed decisions.

You may think everyone is yelling at you – but they are just trying to help you make better decisions so you don’t fail. Your family loves you no matter what. If you act more mature and make mature decisions I promise the family would leave you be, but you make shocking decisions then you can t be shocked that it draws attention from everyone.

I really wish you luck and one day ten years from now I would love to this conversation to see what you can reflect back on. Hopefully you will grow up and make better decisions and thrive in your new environment. Unfortunately the stats on dropouts is bad, so I hope you beat those odds. Go prove everyone wrong – study your ass off, get your GED, go to college study your ass off and prove to everyone that you were mature enough to drop out of school… you have the choice.

But don’t be shocked if your actions are judged if you continue on the same path you are on – you draw that attention to yourself the same way I drew attention by winning soo many college scholarships for studying my ass off in school and volunteering so I could afford to go to college… I chose to do that and I got plenty of positive attention from our entire family and everyone around me. You have to know your actions will be noticed, but you cant complain when you make a decision that can ruin your life and you have your family worry about you and your future – they want the best for you.

Do not complain about your family not caring because if anything they care about you soo much…

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Allison Lang Buechner Spent the nite cleaning credit card macihines forgot how many I bought then but hope to sell since we r desperate for $ Spent 230-5 @ Unemployment Ctr, waiting forever - got a cool website Id never heard of other than indeed.com that will help me alot, surprised when broke down last job hrly wage-was sooo hi almost as much as Caremark awesome!

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Allison Lang Buechner after being @ unemployment since 230 dealing with idiots, now having Chilis with hubby both exhausted after long night!

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Allison Lang Buechner Call to find out about the length of my unemployment interview that was supposed to be @3:15 he says lets put it this way if you came in right now youd be lucky to get in by 5 seriously then why make me an appointment? Because I cant get my money till they complete my interview argh this system is soo backwards and sti...ll feeling sick compounds everything HAVE BRAINS, NEED JOB!

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Allison Lang Buechner sad when i@ 4am Daisy manuevers her way under my arms plops herself right under my keyboard as Im trying to type & rolls over w/her paws up in the air looking at me like "please pet me, please" as if I had any choice with such a damn adorable white curlmesseduop dog interrupting my typing Daisy youre just the cutest th...ing in the world - 2 bad ur parents ignored u all day!

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Allison Lang Buechner Worst night: Get to Civic Center 2 have people sitting in our seats so as usher is trying to figure out what to do I tell Scott quietly I cant believe they r sitting in our seat to which they turn around & literally started yelling 2 shutup/shhh & I say you took our seats & ur yelling @ us & he says thats exactly what I said... I left...

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Jessica Morton Wallace

Some people!! You didn't get to sit in your own seats? What happened?

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Allison Lang Buechner

Here Id been soo looking forward to this forever & what was I supposed to do sit by people who were about to jump me-I mean they literally leaned up like they were going to get up & start something right on the edge of the balcony right as the damn play was starting-CLASSY.

I was soo MAD the only other thing they could do was seat us directly behind these assholes who had just yelled at us like trailer trash… Then again we were watching Tuna does Vegas who should I expect to show up but Texas small-town trash like Tuna…

After 30 minutes in hall with Scott ready to just kick their asses too, I decided to do something about it… Got in contact with the director who got us seats in same row but on the left side where we would be nowhere near them & they made those people go back to their real seats at intermission – still mad we didn’t get our center row seats and had to sit on the very left edge though. ... See More

My parents had been way down & had no idea what had happened so they joined us. But still I lost 30 minutes of the damn play that I was soo excited about all because some assholes couldn’t sit in their own damn seats & because the usher didn’t have the balls to make them move to their cheaper seats.

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Allison Lang Buechner ***NEED GREAT PAYING JOB near NW Exprwy/Hefner Pkwy-as Ive never made less than $40K/yr & dont want 2 go backwards! LUV 2 get back 2 looking @ pharma/med sales even PT/assoc but saw friend get shaft after 26 yrs @ 1 so tempted to stay away exc 4 the $ & Im very personable, DUH! Will utilize psych skills in any postion....... ANY suggestions or headhunters/emplt agencies that really work!

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Allison Lang Buechner Amazing day reveals how Ive all these friends on here&inlife but its a joke when really counts I only have Scott not even my sister a Dr–Needed so much from people last nite in ER as I couldnt speak but nothing There 4 so many of u through ur problems u know I always want 2 help others its my calling-hate being used too CONT BELOW

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Allison Lang Buechner

When I was in the ER last night not breathing&noone responds w/anything that sadly broke my heart as I realized none of those Ive supported cared enough 2 support me when I felt like I was dying for hr upon hr of not able 2 breathe in-had Scott crying he was scared. 1 of most horrifying moments in my life Love 2 MercyERstaff as I passed out @ ... See Morecounter purse went allover They picked me up in wheelchair&got my cough/hyperventilation down eventually not my hives went on 2 an even worse attack in room scared the complete shit out of me & Drs in hallway because I couldn’t break the cycle it kept going on I just had soo many tears Sound like a pityparty just hurt not angry Done w/caring about others as its clear my caring has meant nothing so y waste my time On lots of loopy meds sorry if not make alot sense

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Sarah Janway Compton

You sound like a mess! Are you any better? I may not be in okc, but I'm still here for ya!

March 10 at 6:36pm ·

Candice Crutchfield

OMG... I JUST SAW THIS POST BABE. ARE YOU OKAY? WHAT HAPPENED!!! HELLO YOU NEED MY CELL PHONE.

March 10 at 7:05pm ·

Allison Lang Buechner

About to FINALLY watch a movie because Scott doesnt want me to talk for a few hrs to heal my throat and I wont quit talking... will write more tomorrow, it was so scary to no be able to breathe but now am on alot of meds that are keeping me open relaxed and out of pain... pretty much very loopy and out of it all day! I couldnt talk at the ER or I broke out in these fits so it was awful to just sit there waiting for my next attack...

March 10 at 9:26pm ·

Cara Jean Dehnert Huffman

Darling - I love you - but is a FB status update the proper place to cry for help (literally, not metaphorically)? For me, FB is a place for social networking, not 911 calls. If you really need help and support, utilize other systems!! For Christ's sake - take care of yourself! Glad you are okay, and so thankful for Scott!

My response about Bricktown vs Las Vegas I wanted to defend as this is part of why we moved back from Scottsdale..

Sorry LONG blog but I wanted 2 defend r city I’m proud of after the last comment about Bricktown being boring compared 2 living n Vegas&I know a thing or 2 cuz I lived n other lrg cities both n US&Mexico. Vegas may seem cool to visit but living there can get old between tourists and smoking everywhere and all the stimulation everywhere - the shows would be cool to see as they are always changing! Plus we left heaven of Scottsdale with good jobs to move back here.

If you really want to you can take advantage of muc but most just dont look... Matter of fact Greater Tuna will be in town the 12th-14th consisting of two men playing all hysterical characters that leaving you laughing constantly. It started off in Texas and I grew up watching their video at EVERY holiday event! So even if you get cheap seats it is worth watching

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People compain about there not being anything to do here but Scott and I have found soo much to do that by Sundays we are dead - look around both papers and online and you will be surprised byt it all. I have an email from OKC letting me know everything going on each weekend. Sure Bricktown Association and Edmond & OKC Chambers have them as well. Plus there are way too many restaurants you havent tried yet so pick something gifferent and truly make it a great long night of conversation with the one you love or with friends - it makes for a great happy night!

Loved living n Scottsdale but I enjoy comfortableness of OKC&not seeing 16 yrolds driving Lamborghini’s or more arriving n clubs w/perfect bodies: boob job w/huge boobs falling out of shirts, chin&jaw&nose lines shaved 4 models face, fat added 2 cheeks, eyes lifted&butt enhancements&Botox at really young ages-its such a fake pretty world albeit mostly grp of people leading lonely false,cold lives. Besides all my down 2 earth friends it was cold but aamazingly pretty place 2 live. People totally caught up n perfection NOT friendliness. Very touristy town so hard 2 meet&keep friends as they always left 2 go back home part of yr-empty homes most of yr makes 4 blank neighborhoods. It was refreshing 2 move back&be surrounded by so much friendliness & great neighborhoods

R friends n LV have been there awhile&are over the LV scene now-not nearly as exciting as was when arrived-all tourists&smokers–no 1 2 really get 2 know as there were a lot of people that come&go

I'll take my Bricktown I think is turning awesome w/extension of bowling alley, movie theater, Sonics Headquarters on canal, NBA Thunder coming 2 town has really opened the area up as there are 10000+people downtown&in Bricktown before/after the game&all the recent hotels by Bass Pro Shop&the huge NYC apt looking ushaped blg by ballpark&canal that seems 2 get better the more things built, ie Toby Keith's I Love this Bar&awesome condo complex w/adult bowling&clothing stores

Can't wait til canal opens 2 river-itll connect Meridian hotel area 2 Bricktown. Plus all the rowing competitions from all over world&hi speed boating competitions Colleges now have active rowing teams on the river.

1 huge downside is paying so much 4 parking. Loved living n Guadalajara, Mexico as u took the bus/taxi everywhere 4 cheap didn’t matter if u drank 2 much cuz u always got home safe-as I’m sure that’s how LV is Wish we’d have better transpo here that was as efficient as Phoenix’s as well as they did n Guadalajara

When I owned a condo dwntwn yrs ago wed walk 2 Bricktown&Id take a cab home 4 $2.25-Loved living there as is so much 2 do as a single chica Really miss it as I went 2 Myriad Bot. Gardens 2 exercise all the time cuz it’s such a beautiful place 2 walk around Never got old&now theyre planning on building huge 40 acre Central Park thatll connect 2 another 30 acres along river when the new I40 opens&an area of it will hold up 2 20000 event goers. Lots of things 2 look forward 2 w/new Maps 3&we have Devon n process of building lrgst bldg n OKC that will b state of the art just behind the "new" library down from Ford Cntr!

Scottsdale’s growing even faster&has more 2 see&do-is exciting when we go back love the weather most of the year, but then I see all the $100K+ cars w/really young kids or really old men&HUGE 20-40K sqft homes soo breathtaking&are only used less than 6 mos a yr&its really sickening!

People here appreciate more of what they have aren’t tarnished by California money yet-except 4 the n Thunder team&staff moving 2 town. I hated going out back 2 Scottsdale cuz I had 2 look perfect 2 get in&even then I hadn’t had cosmetic surgery so I always felt out of place As my roommate said almost every guy has a different girlfriend 4 each night of the week cuz they can cuz they have that much money women just fall all over them I was sitting n my boyfriends house at the time that had millions n 10,000 sqft home on the mountain next 2 The Boulders Resort – they used 2 own all that land thus their $ now, it overlooked the entire Phoenix/Scottsdale/Glendale skyline as all the back glass walls opened up so the whole back of the house was 1 big open outside view. Huge tree trucks twice the size that I could hug where throughout the house&the master bathroom was 1400 sq ft but 2 him it was nothing&couldn’t understand why I was sooo n awe of it all – he said ya whatever I grew up here so it’s no big deal. Realized quickly he wasn’t someone I wanted 2 be with

There are those people there that are great as my hubby grew up there but they are overshadowed recently by this new grp from CA&there aren’t as many down 2 earth people as there were when he grew up. People have 2 drive 1hr 2 up 2 2hrs 2 get 2 work cuz at the time I lived there my 1970s 700sqft apt was $250,000-no one could afford 2 live near Phoenix/Scottsdale&had 2 go far out 2 afford a house. That’s when we decided 2 move back to Edmond&OKC-there were so many kids living n r apts playing n the dangerous parking lots&we didn’t want r kids growing up n an apt or a shitty house. We wanted a big backyard w/out the crappy gravel, actual grass & trees they could run around in&cute house. Plus as Rusty can tell you my hubby was a news photog forever&LOVES storms&he never got that back home growing up so every storm gets him soo excited. When it would get 2 b like 120 degrees n Scottsdale I’d plead w/God 2 please bring that storm over the mountain 2 us 2 cool us down. Now my hubby gets so many storms he is so happy as he never had that growing up. Monsoon season been a bust 4 a while now&he wanted 2 experience huge storms &/or tornadoes!

He has that, now we have r half acre backyard&cute house, he has a great job out of news finally&theres so much 2 do here now we have been on overdrive doing soo many things lately. Just heard my cousins longtime love play at The Wormy Dog&mostly play along W coast so it was a treat! there were many people of ALL ages I was very surprised&by how packed it was. I really do think Bricktown has amazingly picked up now&will continue 2 grow w/the Thunder&w/Maps3

I do understand ur point though as LV is 1 lrg adult playground how can it not be exciting to live there–hard 2 pick where 2 start&what 2 see esp the shows I just saw how they made an all water based Cirque de Soliel&would kill 2 see that. Would rather see all the attractions&do the fun stuff than gamble even though my bro-n-law is a Blackjack dealer n Scottsdale. Think even that would get 2 b 2 much stimulation all the time 4 me. Would rather find a resort there w/kickass outside area/pool 2 lay out&relax at after a night out.

That’s why I like the easiness/simpleness of Bricktown u can walk around most of Bricktown, or take a bicycle cab if 2 far&its not spread all over town. The only problem is figuring out where 2 eat there are 2 many choices now that the NBA came 2 town!

Sorry I respectfully disagree w/ur take on Bricktown – but then again we are ALL dif’t people w/way dif’t tastes so what I may love u may hate&vice versa. I’ll say w/all the coldness of people I could move back 2 Scottsdale n a heartbeat due 2 the scenery&almost perfect year round weather, summer excluded. I really do hope u continue loving it there although I do believe u get almost as much heat as Phoenix n the summer&no one likes that :-)

Just hope u can come back when everything, like the park, etc is built&see just how great the canal turned out&everything surrounding it. It’s funny cuz Scottsdale 4 years had this huge irrigation canal running throughout town&by Fashion Square Mall, 1 of the biggest n the country. They have now started 2 build huge buildings of concierge condos&restaurants right along it like Bricktown except they don’t offer boat rides yet I don’t believe–they actually came out 2 OKC 2 see what we did here 2 plan what they will do there.

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llison Lang Buechner My Day coughing attack AM saved by Scott, realized lost driverslicense& debitcard, got hair done, Attack again saved by scott Got new license,1stMed sent me to ER Had worse attack on way to Mercy Fell on counter as couldnt breath in to talk my stuff flew allover 1treatment lotsa meds great nurse& hubby feel better & lots more drugs 2 keep me better ;-)

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Allison Lang Buechner

the coughing fits literally made me feel like i was gonna die which then led to hyperventilating which worsened the coughing... ive had this once in my life on machine 4x a day and was scared i was headed there again. please pray i make it thru the night and day tom... i cant go thru that again - worse than my asthma attacks ive had... sooo glad i quit smoking so long ago or it woulda been really bad or fatal. yay me for still not smoking nor wanting to!!

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Allison Lang Buechner TOTALLY ABSOLUTELY DEVASTATED Simon & Garfunkel coming nowhere near the S'n US except New Orleans in April but its too soon to plan now only CA & few N US cities Would be the highlight of my life to hear them sing as I was raised on them! Wish I could make it to New Orleans but have no $ to even talk about buying a tic...ket Feel like the days when I was Cinderella& said "Oh I wish I wish" & all her dreams came true Could that happen right now please?

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by CA I meant Canada not California argh, California I wouldnt mind visiting, Fargo North Dakota isnt really my cup of tea nor somewhere I want to waste my money going to don't ya know? :-}

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Allison Lang Buechner Soo happy I got to hang w/Lang & fam. been way too long just luv her soo much! We r FINALLY done painting got up @8 once doneslept til now turned out AWESOME even if pain the ass! havent rested/slept really till now all week ughh~

family night

Allison Lang Buechner Kickass nite w/whole Lang clan outoftown & family friends for cousins longtime love Korys band in from a leg on W coast They still act as in luv as they did back in like 94? at osu So great 2 catch up w/all, drinks @ Colcord then to Wormy Dog for concert Home by1045 worked furniture till 2 & DEAD paint tom FINALLY!

Ardmore

Allison Lang Buechner Ya know whats funny... after all these years & Ponders is still the place to be in Ardmore. Lunch there & everyone I've known was there eating including 2 judges... Hadnt seen Pat in forever so that was really nice. Ponders was Gram & I's favorite place to eat growing up so it is very sentimental to me & I guess all of... Ardmore! Crazy how everyone was there Saturday!

BEHOLD synch

Allison Lang Buechner OK finally got the Behold synched with the laptop... all 730 pictures... I thought I had alot on there but I had no idea. I mean I still had pics on there from when we were building our old house, kinda sad to see those :-( Sometimes I really miss it! Glad to get them off my phone!!!!

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Notice I havent slept yet because I was determined to get those pics dowloaded... I was so frustrated!

painting prep

Allison Lang Buechner Spent the night taping off all the garage walls & arranging floorclothes & furniture so I can sand & hand paint smaller parts tom. Again we had a blast working our asses off - who knew working this hard could be so fun together? Tom Night is party night @ The Wormy Dog a family affair & Im so excited to see everyone! Come out for a great show!!

stripping...furniture

Allison Lang Buechner 4 hours working at stripping... furniture that is :-) and I can tell you I will probably never take this task on again, its a bitch but considering its my dads baby dresser circa 1949 and had years of paint on it I think it is well worth it as we are seeing the finished beautiful wood now :-) ust wayyyy too much work- think my back is definitely gonna kill me soon

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Allison Lang Buechner I
love that my husband can come home & have lunch with me! What a
great day! Now we will have to rush over to Renovation Station before
they close @ 6 when he gets off! That place is like an adults
playground cuz they have great stuff ya just have to dig around a bit
to find it - I love it cuz its cheap & I can buy alot without
breaking bank!

Central Oklahoma Habitat for Humanity

www.cohfh.org

Welcome to the Central Oklahoma Habitat for Humanity Renovation Station! The Station specializes in the sale of new, used and vintage building supplies and materials, offering items such as lumber, windows, ...

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I love love that place too!

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Allison Lang Buechner OWW! I HURT! Feel like I sat in a chairlike sitting position for 8 hours so the side of my butt front of my thighs all up & down & the backs of my calves as all one massive cramp Big throbbing muscle cramps! Soo out of shape but at least I got 1 mega workout yesterday Everything looks great sanding rest of stuff tonigh...t wonder what muscles I will use tonite that I havent used in a while?

Cucumbers

CUCUMBER


And I thought eating one in a salad was the best use for a cucumber all
this time

The Amazing Cucumber

This information was in The New York Times several weeks ago as part of
their "Spotlight on the Home" series that highlighted creative and
fanciful ways to solve common problems.


1. Cucumbers contain most of the vitamins you need every day, just one
cucumber contains Vitamin B1, Vitamin B2, Vitamin B3, Vitamin B5, Vitamin
B6, Folic Acid,
VitaminC, Calcium, Iron, Magnesium, Phosphorus, Potassium and Zinc.


2. Feeling tired in the afternoon, put down the caffeinated soda and pick
up a cucumber. Cucumbers are a good source of B Vitamins and Carbohydrates
that
can provide that quick pick-me-up that can last for hours.


3. Tired of your bathroom mirror fogging up after a shower? Try rubbing a
cucumber slice along the mirror, it will eliminate the fog and provide a
soothing, spa-like fragrance.

4. Are grubs and slugs ruining your planting beds? Place a few slices in a
small pie tin and your garden will be free of pests all season
long. The chemicals in the cucumber react with the aluminum to give off a
scent undetectable to humans but drive garden pests
crazy and make them flee the area. (WOW)

5. Looking for a fast and easy way to remove cellulite before going out or
to the pool?
Try rubbing a slice or two of cucumbers along your problem area for a few
minutes,
the phytochemicals in the cucumber cause the collagen in your skin to
tighten, firming up the outer layer and reducing the visibility of
cellulite. Works great on wrinkles too!!! (DOUBLE WOW)

6. Want to avoid a hangover or terrible headache? Eat a few cucumber
slices before going to bed and wake up refreshed and headache
free. Cucumbers contain enough sugar, B vitamins and electrolytes to
replenish essential nutrients the body lost, keeping everything in
equilibrium, avoiding both a hangover and headache!!

7. Looking to fight off that afternoon or evening snacking binge?
Cucumbers have
been used for centuries and often used by European trappers, traders and
explores for quick meals to thwart off starvation.

8. Have an important meeting or job interview and you realize that you
don't have enough time to polish your shoes? Rub a freshly cut cucumber
over the shoe, its chemicals will provide a quick and durable shine that
not only looks great but also repels water.

9. Out of WD 40 and need to fix a squeaky hinge? Take a cucumber sliced
rub it along
the problematic hinge, and voila, the squeak is gone!

10. Stressed out and don't have time for massage, facial or visit to the
spa? Cut up an entire cucumber and place it in a boiling pot of water, the
chemicals and nutrients from the cucumber with react with the boiling
water and be released in the steam, creating a soothing, relaxing aroma
that has been shown the reduce stress in new mothers and college
students during final exams.

11.. Just finish a business lunch and realize you don't have gum or
mints? Take a slice of cucumber and press it to the roof of your mouth
with your tongue for 30 seconds
to eliminate bad breath,the phytochemcials will kill the bacteria in your
mouth
responsible for causing bad breath.

12. Looking for a 'green' way to clean your faucets, sinks or stainless
steel? Take a slice of cucumber and rub it on the surface you want to
clean, not only will it remove years of
tarnish and bring back the shine, but is won't leave streaks and
won't harm you fingers or fingernails while you clean.

13. Using a pen and made a mistake? Take the outside of the cucumber and
slowly use it to erase the pen writing, also works great on crayons and
markers that the kids have used to decorate the walls!!